I’ve done LOTS and i’m so sorry to have not filled you in with all the ‘hoo haa’ of Wunna land. However, sometimes a chica has just got to live a little…a lot….well…just feel like life is so amazing that she has to enjoy it. I’m a blogger of the glammy story teller sort and by no means a cyber geek. (I adore a cyber geek, i’m just shit with being techy.) So, i kinda have breaks where in which i just got out and enjoy…then report back later with a wiggle, giggle, hip bump.
So much has happened that I couldn’t possibly tell you it all and simply because I can’t rewind that fr to remember it all in detail. (Wine has been drank… new mornings have occured.)
I’ve had 2 weeks of no work, only to find that I’m a worker and i love to be someone who can pull her own weight and make some dollar. I’m back working ‘hardish’ and i’m loving every moment of it. Work is only great if it’s balanced with fun, love and family. And that’s what I’m doing. It feels awesome to sort og have some kind of worth again.
The newest thing in Wunna land, that most of you know about, from my last blog is my love life! I’m FINALLY not single and with the most AMAZING guy i could ever EVER be with. It sort of seems really quick and out of the blue to most, however to us, it’s been a really well nurtured, haul of a amazingly good experience. We’ve done well to get where we’ve got to emotionally. We’re loving it, having fun, kinda being a ‘family’ and being loved up.
I guess, i’ve just loved him all along…so it’s just GREAT to FINALLY be his. I’m dating my best friend…and it’s awesome. I love him very much…and that’s great! I love it because our connection is good and we’re a little bit of everything…we’re soft, we’re fun, we’re romantic, yet we can be serious, deep and ambitious. EVERYTHING about it is perfect and i’m currently feeling like the luckiest girl ever. (He’s a good egg.)
We’ve spent a lot of time together of recent../and we always did anyway. But we’ve dined, dated, spent time with friends, the babies..and all sorts. I’m happy. I’m really happy…and i hope he’s the guy that get to do life with.
So, right..since my last blog, a lot of family time has occured. I’ve painted canvas after canvas with Ruby, done parks in the sun with both babies, watched movies, gone shopping, simply cuddled, we’ve lunched, they’ve chilled with Ben, we’ve done a mass loads of play areas….we’ve literally done everything. , their heart desired. We even accidentally did a Toys R us, walk through, at 9am…to kill time.
Alongside that, i’ve lunched with friends, done casual lunch dates with my new beau. We’ve driven to Doncaster for last minute birthday pressie buying, we’ve eaten everything, drank lots and enjoyed each other madly. I’m an affectionate girl, so i’m quite tactile and loving by nature. So, it’s good that he’s like that too…and i’m enjoying the fact that people are slowly starting to realize that we’re together. (Nick however stated that it wasn’t real until it was ‘Facebook Official.’ But he would wouldn’t he! Lol)
Talking about Nick. I actually gave him his belated birthday present last week. Well I think it was last week.
You won’t really know this, but i have (well had) a giant sliver canvas of a tigers head in my living room. I’ve really loved it, however every human to walk into my home and see it has pissed themselves laughing at it, because it’s either horrid or boz eyed. 🙂
I told Nick that i’d gift it to him for his birthday, but never did it. So the other day, I wedged it into my car, drove to his after the nursery run, knowing that he would be asleep…and I decided to drop it outside his front door, to SURPRISE HIM, when he woke up. (He hates the tiger canvas. Hence why it’s hilarious.)
I’m there, stood outside his home, whilst he’s in bed, looking at this dodgy canvas, thinking it’s not noticeable enough. Joggers were even laughing now and well, i felt like it was intrusive enough…so i broke into his back garden, (with this fucking giant tiger canvas in my arms), rushed it to his shed and had it face his kitchen door, so when he went for his first smoke of the day, it would terrify him.
It worked. I rocked. He loved it and then punched it to ‘Eye of the tiger.’ (I had sent it to Hana who he was doing bike riding with that day, for dramatic effect.)
Can’t even remember what day that was, but we all met at The Carleton for drinks later..Dodge joined Ben and I….and we did bits of food and enjoyed life.
That night I even went around to Dodge’s to meet his Mum, because she apparently wanted to. It was actually so much fun and awesome, but both Ben and Dodge terrified me for 20 minutes straight, before i went…with a lecture of ‘do’s don’ts and prep.’ HAHAHA. I was SCARED. But it was awesome. Then Ben and I went home for cuddles.
So much inbetween has occured. There’s been a lot of very loving heart to hearts. A lot of Ponte gossip. (I have no idea why lots of people think i’m a cunt. LOL. I can be a swine, but i’m glamourous, so it cancels swinery out. GET WITH IT. It annoys me, but i don’t really care, because my life is still pretty great…and well i’m glad everyone enjoys to talk about me. 🙂 )
Lunches, dinner, drinks, casual days out.
Two nights ago i did steak night with Rich, Katty and Ben. Followed by TGI’s with last night. We’re done sort of consecutive double date nights and they’ve been fun. I like a good time, so to me..it’s a blast. PLUS, i enjoy sharing the ‘we’re doing love’ thing to the masses. Lol.
In fact, on Sunday Rich and Katty had a big old BBQ at Rich’s Mum’s house to celebrate their ‘day after each other’s birthdays. That was fun. We all ate, drank and nattered away for HOURS!!!! I adore nights like that we’re Pimms, wine and all sorts occur. When you’re sat with the guy you adore, and he’s happy because he’s scoffing and you’re drinking so you’re happy to..and you’re around good friends, watching day turn to night under a gazebo.
That happened, It was amazing.
Since then, i’ve had baby time, Ben time, and back to work time. Life has been amazing and i’m looking to do well in the future…in ALL AREAS.
If i could day anything, i’d say i’m pretty lucky..and i could tell you that im not sure if i deserve it, but i certainly definitely DO! 🙂
If you work hard, play hard, and love hard, you can literally have anything and everything you want. Wallop a bit of good old faith, determination, heart and love…and you can make it last a lifetime.
Lots of love,