YOU HAVE WUNNA MAIL!
I was sat at ‘Deli Central’ in Wakefield having a chilled airy breakfast (I ordered the skinny scrambled eggs, on brown toast with the smoked salmon,) with a close friend who’s going through some kind of breakup. I say ‘some kind’ because I was only half listening AND because i’m not really that much of a decent friend to her really. 🙂 I’d just got off a business Skype call and there I was *plunged* into this breakfast/brunch world of ‘moaning about her boyfriend.’ The reason why i’m sounding so unsympathetic is simply because I’m on the ‘Be Positive’ team, she didn’t really NEED me, she just needed someone to ‘moan at’ and I just so happened to be around, with my excellent timing! Lol.
Girls should never cry at brunches over smoked salmon. It’s awkward and off putting Lol.. I didn’t really know what to say, other than ‘you kinda brought it on yourself,’ as I placed down my black coffee. 🙂 I was distracted by my phone messages…I’ve got a lot on…I didn’t have time to absorb the moaning.
Yet it was then that I noticed this…
‘Good morning ‘ (This guy has sent me that message every day for about 7 months. I’ve never once replied.)
‘Love your blog did vote does help me out at times picks me up makes me smile you got it going keep it up xx’
‘This year has been one of the hardest of my life watching my father die but reading and seeing what you have been up to has been a huge highlight for me love your blog gotta have that award written all over it did vote bye the way you’ve done loads for me thanks xx if you ever come to Cornwall be devastated if you didn’t want a tour guide.’
‘How are you? How do I get to meet you?’
‘I know your not up to talking to strangers I just wanna say tried so many times before seriously think your funny and you look great just wish you would reply I’m not trying it on your way out off my league and I’m happy as I am just trying to give you some credit xx’
‘Wunna Date? Meet me! I’m single!’
‘Going round Doncaster with a lot of my friends for my birthday on 11th of February if your out x’
‘You look lovely, would love to hang out some time when you’re free?’
So, these are just a few randomly picked messages that I’ve directly ‘copied and pasted’ as examples for quickness…I’ve literally hundreds and hundreds of messages that I hardly ever get to get through, unless I’m looking for a message specifically…
And it made me think…(whilst my friend was on phase three of her moan festival… I had kinda blurred her out by this point, so her mouth was moving, but no sound was coming out…:) )
This blog wouldn’t be as popular as it has become, well let’s say as it’s ‘becoming’ because in my mind I still have a long way to go…IF IT WASN’T FOR YOU.
I’m just a girl, typing out my life, my story..and almost every single day…
You’re reading, you’re listening, you’re appearing in it…you’re following it, you’re working alongside it or you’re working with it…
But the number one thing that everyone asks me for, after going through thousands of messages is simply to meet me?
I meet Me, every day. 🙂 So obviously to me, It doesn’t seem like such a big thing? But be you a person, a brand, a singleton or a company…Everyone asks to meet me…?
I believe that in order to be a success, you have to GIVE before you TAKE and that can be related to any area of your life. I’m a naturally generous person..on all levels. SO why am I not responding to the people who are sending me ‘cyber love’ everyday? My excuse is because ‘I’m busy.’ But you’re the people who are making this blog…WORTH IT, so that’s wrong.
Now, i’ve always said that chrissiewunna.com is like a written word reality show, where any human, anywhere, can be part of it, simply by crossing life paths with me…I’ve always said you just have to meet me and if you have somehow interested me, you’ll wake up the next morning and find yourself written about on this blog.
YET, I’m not giving you the fullest opportunities to meet me am I? Even when you’re asking because I’m so busy doing my own life and so busy working with brands, that I’m forgetting to nurture YOU, make YOU feel special.
And yes, you’ve got to give me the ‘i’m busy’ card, but It’s important for me to find time to be there for YOU..as like I said, I couldn’t be more grateful for you following my life….
EVERYONE’S EXISTENCE MATTERS…i WANT TO SHOW YOU HOW IMPORTANT YOUR IS!
TODAY IT CHANGES!
EVERY MONTH I AM GOING TO BE GIVING ONE OF YOU A PERSONAL OPPORTUNITY TO HANG OUT WITH ME…
IT WILL BE BLOGGED…
And your ‘meet up’ can be for ANY REASON or NO REASON?
Do you want to go on a girls shopping trip with me? Do you want to go on a date? Karaoke with me? Shoot with me? Do you have a blog and would like me to come and take a look over it? Do you want to tattoo me? Are you a company and you’d like me to come work a day in the life of..? Are you a personal brand and would like a bit of promo? Do you want to go to dinner, lunch or cocktails? Got a wedding you want me to go to? A hen/stag do to organize? Are you throwing a party or event? Do you just want me to meet YOUR family, YOUR friends? Or do you just want to invite me over a cuppa tea, as you do your version of life? Have i missed your email asking me to come dine at your restaurant?
Literally ANYTHING GOES….
THERE WILL ALSO BE ‘WUNNA WILD CARDS!!!’
I get up to a great deal of things, as I’m just a girl who knows how to embrace life and love every moment of it! I have places, events and all sorts that I am attending this year…I mean gosh, I have the UK Blog Awards….I have a cocktail tour…I have gifts of experience that I need people to come along to and i’m happy to have YOU as my Plus 1!
So every so often a ‘Wunna Wild Card’ will be thrown into the mix, as part of this ‘Game of life path crossings.’
You Wunna Meet me? Now you can!
Just email: firstname.lastname@example.org
Contact me via ANY FORM OF SOCIAL MEDIA.
Take your life by the reins and then leave the *magic* to me. I’m throwing YOU the reins to WUNNA LAND…I’ll have a Prosecco, as YOU TAKE CONTROL. (What am I even getting myself into?? Lol.)