I’m currently at home after a day of rest. I’ve pretty much spent all day in my jimmy jams, curled up, in bed watching tv and refueling. I’ve been quite exhausted over the last few weeks and i am definitely in need of a chillax. Plus, a great deal of awful events decided to occur all at one merry time (like they do) with the whole death of one of my best friends ‘Kat’ and my daddy getting sick. Y’know, when i first heard about Kat, i surprised myself at how well i took it. When now it seems i didn’t actually take it well at all. (What a surprise!) It hit me later…and to be honest fucked with my head. I’ve been acting completely out of character recently and really only just come to merry terms with it, about 3 days ago. I knew there was ‘something’ wrong with me. I just didn’t know what? But now it’s all sorted. Thursday was when i realized. You often don’t realize how something has affected you, until later. I thought it was something completely different that was wrong with me? Yet i’m glad i’ve figured it all out and it’ s sorted now.
Anyway, on a happier note, (other than the fact that i am currently obsessed with Christmas music & jazz) my Mum bought me the infamous ‘Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus’ book today. I’ve only read the first few pages and it’s already amazing. It’s the greatest relationship book ever written, when it comes to understanding the opposite sex, so go grab one and educate yourself. It’s helped me loads already. I’m shocked!! Therefore as i read through it, i will ‘quote’ bits of it to you, incase you need a little help too. I love my boyfriend. And well this book is helping me understand ‘men’ & relationships. ( I need all the help i can get.)
Like i said i’ve only read the first few pages, but this is what i’ve been taught: (oooooh…)
‘Without the awarness that we are supposed to be different, men and women are at odds with each other. Through understanding the differences of the opposite sex, we can more successfully give and recieve love. By accepting our differences, creative solutions can be discovered & we can learn how to best love & support the people we care about. Love is magical & it can last if we remember our differences. When men & women are able to respect each others differences, then love has a chance to blossom, through loving communication.’ (Awww…i love this.)