Great day! I think i’m just surrounded by ace people every day, which makes life utterly worth it. Today I was ‘sat down and organised’ and it made my kitten heart smile with glee. From that point…life got much easier…so i’m even more delighted as now, i know i’m on the path forward to ‘more than getting there’ but eventually championing it. It felt amazing to have a being care about making me feel more confident and be sassy enough to know how to do it.
I did a post work supermarket shop today, as I never seem to have time to whop out a supermarket shop…and to be honest, when the weathers chilly and i’m always chilly…i can never be arsed. I hate supermarket shopping by the way. It’s filled with bad lighting and frozen food isles. Urks me out! However, today, it was filled with DILF’s. Not that it made too much of a difference to my love life…Yet we girls love a bit of eye candy. There’s hardly any eye candy in Pontefract, so like I say…watching a bundle of ‘after work’ DILFY ‘suits’ wandering around with wire baskets, plonking in wine and oven baked cottage pies, not only made me giggle, but made me feel like the world’s a safer place. They even had tans and everything. I KNOW! And when i’m saying ‘DILF’ i’m meaning older, working ‘looks like a business Daddy’…with a tan….kinda guy. They don’t have to be an actual Daddy. Lol. I heart a ‘tall dark and handsome.’ A couple tried to do the ‘eye contact’ by the veg thing…so i simply smiled and tottered on. DILF’s in supermarkets are only there for the purpose of being eye candy. Youhave to let them go back home to their wives. People enjoy being around hotness, it makes supermarket shopping a nicer and so much more of a calming experience. 🙂
Then some mid life crisis middle ager kept revving his Ferrari ‘boy toy’ outside the grocery store..I know…a DILF in a Ferrari. Lol. I deliberately didn’t look, simply because I knew he’d find it so annoying. 😉 *Not just a pretty face*
Away from that. I’m home now with a wine. I’m watching a video that ‘Chris from Happn’ that i haven’t actually casually chatted to ages sent me. It’s about bikes and him riding them. You’d think it would be an odd thing to send a girly of my sort. Yet, I think it’s great that he wanted to share something that he had made. I didn’t say much…but i watched it. (I know you’re reading this, so well done.Great vid! Goes well with wine.)
I’ve had some great chats today with the girls. We’re all sort of driven ladies, different by nature…but have the same thread of ‘want to succeed’ running through us. It’s great. It’s energizing. We buzz off it. Anyway, today we managed to fit in a conversation about guys and what we all want…and it seems we all desire the same. Three different girls, three different generations…all attractive, all ambitious…and when all’s said and done…we imaginary chose stylish, charming, ballsy, sassy, but loyal, kind and sexy. A guy who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid of being a manly gentleman. A hard working, ambitious type, who’s fun yet the right kind of chilled. He knows how to take care of a girl. He does it with this desirable ‘ooze’ of dynamic, yet calm ‘swigeddy.’ (That was my word. Lol)
We all described the same imaginary dream guy. Then we laughed about it and got back to business. That was after imagining who we’d end up with in years to come.
I think fulfillment is everything. I say it over and over again, it’s just about a connection and the wrong connection is dull and almost frustratingly suffocating.
‘You literally just say what every girl is thinking…it’s hilarious.’ said the tall, glamourous, Beyonce dance off Queen, to the little ageing Glamour Puss by a pink hover. And i love it.
I’m pretty direct and i don’t mind that about me as i’m polite with it. I’m not a dick. I know how to smear thinks with charm or humour. 🙂 Or be decent. My heart is good. Plus, now i’m old i get away with it. People always see me as some diva, and i can be when i’m passionate about something and when ambition kicks in…but there’s a young playful innocence to me…and it’s kinda just something you’ll only realize if you have the honour to meet me in real life. HAHAHA.
So, i guess…it doesn’t matter whether it comes to your choice of work or if it’s regarding love…if you’re doing something that you genuinely love madly, you feel excited, fulfilled and that one think that we’re all looking for….an that’s happiness.
Now, i’m happy and i’m always a girl who’s really comfortable when single…and it’s honestly the key to success. Hot, confident girls are the sexiest. I never go into anything love lifey, by pre planning it, like it’s a scheduled event. I don’t plan the wedding, the kids, the perfect white picket fence, after 3 dates. Lol. I find that suffocating. I just go with the natural flow of everything and enjoy it. People forget to have fun and let people be who they are at times. And yes, if you date the right choice, it makes all the difference. But the fun is what makes it sexy. The trust, loyalty etc..will be there anyway if they’re right for you. It’s not something you should need to fight about. If you are fulfilled, you’ll know it, because your eyes will beam with excitement.
Love isn’t that hard. I’m pretty loving. I find it easy. The stuff that’s hard are the crappy bits that frustrate you because you look to your right, after months and months and the ‘candy’ you actually chose yourself, lol…is now a nuisance. The good thing about ‘us girls’ today was that we were actually pretty confident that we’d be swept off our feet…that what makes US sexy!