Hey you lot! 🙂 🙂 How are ya??? 🙂 It’s Sunday and it’s glorious! I’ve had the most Wunna filled weekend, dashed in fun, laughter, family and love. It hasn’t been a crazy one. It’s definitely been a chilled one and i needed that after my awesome week at work (work feels really great right now because we’re getting there, we’re doing fabulously and like i always say, i’m surrounded by like minded fun yet driven people. 🙂 ) Makes me happy! )
I’ve sort of forgotten about guys this weekend, after a chitter chatter and a totter over some ‘after work’ cobbles, with a dash of friendly advice, from someone that I newly look up to. I’m a girly girl, but i’m an ambitious girl, and i know exactly what i want in a man and can express what I want and need very easily. In my head, he’s sort of the guy version of me. Lol. And i’m a chick who holds herself in her highest regard 🙂 I’m not limp or beige. I’m a dazzle of everything. So yeah, the man of my dreams….he’s pretty special. HAHA. I WILL get over myself shortly. Just not yet. 🙂
I’m really happy. I’ve spent the weekend doing brunches at American diners with Ruby and Junior, throwing them at home dance parties, we’ve lunched, we’ve played, made up music video’s for kicks…we’ve sunbathed, mowed with bubble lawn mowers, travelled, slide and swirled around parks, done posh dinners, chilled and had cinema nights at home…we’re fancied dressed, we’ve fought a little ;), we’ve spent dough and we’ve enjoyed each other. WE’ve lived this weekend. Then as they tinkered off to visit Daddies…I spent some quality time with my Mum, which i know that she loves…and we shopped and did coffees…yet the shopping for us, is simply something to occupy us as we chat, banter and catch up. I’m really close to my mum and dad, and they’ve always been such great role models…worked really hard and always a;ways adored me….even when i’ve narked them off. So today was great. I’ve been happy. I’ve happy danced in my car. I’ve sang out loud, i’ve bought pencil skirts (it’s an addiction) and now i’m home, after absorbing the sun, with a vino and in neon orange flamingo pyjamas! 🙂
Life is great! And chilling feels awesome, as i get ready for a really busy tomorrow.
I went out for a couple drinks last night, only for literally a couple hours as i needed to destress a bit. I had a lot on my mind an it was bustling…and I just needed to cut away for a second and enjoy some escapism. Wow, did that go wrong. Pontefract’s, such a weird place at times. All was well, all was chilled. Good meeting people that I know and adore. Good meeting new folk who just wanted to come up and say hello. It got to a point where i was only in the second pub, looked around and wanted to just go home. Lol.
I’m not gonna say anything about anything…but it ended up being dramatic…and I ended up having a mini argument with a being…a little one, but i’m passionate, and when i’m passionate about something, i’ll debate it and with the heart of a lion.
I was in a discussion…a touchy discussion…and the person frustrated me so much, you know when you just can’t argue with someone because YOU KNOW that what they’re saying or doing is wrong and they refuse to ‘hands up’ to it.
I’m feisty, but i am literally the most loving and tolerant person anyone will ever meet. I’m understanding, confident and warm. It takes a lot to rile me up..but i got so internally cross that my eyes filled up that I took a breath, grabbed my Mulberry and with a hair toss strutted away from a negative conversation, as fast as my kitten heels could take me…over the cobbles, under the night stars…with mini ‘i’m frustrated’ tears…not listening to the being following me and left. All I hear was them shouting ‘Christina.’ But i just needed space.
Got home, calmed down, cried it out a little (which is always great because it’s a release) and then just like that life was dandy again and I went to bed. 🙂
I felt free…
I shouldn’t have gone out! HAHAHA. FFs. I need to take up yoga.
I want next week tot be filled with good news, fun, positive glows and love…excitement.
I think i’m ‘work glamping’ on Saturday! Then the following week I’m off to dilly dally at a ball. Oh and i just wanted to mention that there has been a lot of shirtless joggers today and i thank you for that! 🙂 It has been fully appreciated.
Feels good to be chilling. I’ve had an AMAZING DAY. 🙂 Hope you have too.
Y’know, more people should focus on the positive and the great things they have going on in their lives. When people team up or couple up… be it work, play or in love, it’s important that all parties are coming from a positive place or everything is doomed. You will fail to achieve that good kind of magic, if you’re heart is not fully radiating warmth…a good positive energy. Yet at the same time you need to also know what’s NOT good for you and slide it away for some other being to play with. 🙂 Simples!
I’m good like that, i can cut away the negative with an easy snip and as a chick, i’m easy going and brimming over with positive energy. yeah, i’m honest and blunt…but i’m decent. (And also a bit sexy 🙂 ) I mean God, my first husband used to always do his Jay Z quote and tell everyone (when he was first trying to be an actor) that he really did have ’99 problems’ and ‘his bitch certainly wasn’t one.’ Lol
Romantic in a not very romantic, hip hop, way. 🙂 (He’s not even hip hop at all. So, i don’t know why he used to say that. Lol. He ended up being really successful but his foundation at home (ME lol) was strong..and I think when men feel whole, they can conquer the world. That’s why behind every great man, they say there’s an even greater woman. He actually got me quite a lot of things…but the only thing i saved…(and i didn’t even save the scrap book that he made me for Christmas one year) was a twig, that he pulled off a tree in Central park, as he still lived in New York at the time. He told me to save it and treasure it and it was made from a good strong foundation and that one day we’d both be a success. He was a good man..the next man i marry will be a good man.
I still have that twig.