I don’t think it’s remotely wrong for a girl to ‘put out’ on the first date. It’s weird how people seem to judge those girls. To Me, it really makes no difference whatsoever, and i mean honestly whocares. If you’re gonna get the guy in the end, you’re gonna get him. If you’re not, you’re not, and it has ‘zero’ to do with whether you had sex with him, on the first date! So stop pointing you’re boney little fingers, you skanky little Christian girls. We don’t judge you for saving yourself for the Dear Lord. We might make fun of you, but we don’t judge you. I mean everyone knows the ‘preachers daughter’ rides cock better than all of us put together. You girls should get trophies!
Sex to me is a pleasure, an energy a wonderful thing. I’m a very sexual being, and enjoy it a great deal, therefore if the guy is right, the moment is a sizzle and timing is almost too perfact…then i think it’s jolly fine to touch each other sexually, peel off each others clothes, and dive into a sexy ‘bedroom shuffle,’…and without feeling like a ‘dirty tart.’ It’s pleasurable, an expression of emotion and not something that should be carefully co-ordinated and planned, provided you are smart, safe and don’t come out with a delicious round of herpes….as that would be a tad bit unfortunate.
I mean i’ve done both, ‘put out’ and ‘played hard to get’ (well…more ‘put out’) and really it doesn’t make you any more ‘special’ because you deliberately played hard to get. That’s still ‘game,’ and is TRAGIC! Everyone hates a game player, because it’s always smelt out immediately, and even though you think they don’t know….they KNOW!! Boys want to have ‘nookie’ as soon as they see you. It’s part of their genetic make-up. I (when it comes to sex) am like a boy…I WANT it (note, only with those that i actually fancy,) and i know that when i’ve wanted to have a little ‘Ooh-Arr,’ with a gentleman, and they’ve refused to submit to my advances..i’ve been pretty pissed off! lol… (It’s happened twice, when boys have purposely not ‘put out’ to try and seem like a challenge, since i’m the girl who apparently get EVERYTHING she wants. It doesn’t make me want you more. I’m a girl who likes to get what she wants…and ALWAYS! It just makes me HATE you.
Anyway, godda go spray tan. My kittens are sooo cute. They think the animals on TV are real, and want to lick them. Aww….