Four girls, all different, all friends, all great and with paths crossed in the same walk of life, yet with the same feminine thread weaving it’s strong yet delicate way through us.
Today we learnt, that no matter if you’re a sassy chick, a soft chick, a hard chick, a ditzy chick, a glammy chick, a shy chick, no matter what kinda chick you are, we ALL love to be appreciated, told that we are treasured and attention…from the guy that we have our eyes/heart set on.
The smart guys, will already know this. The not so smart, will endure the ‘game’ of it all, (SNOOZE, WE DON’T HAVE TIME FOR THAT) or simply be oblivious to this. The sneaky will know this and tell us what we want to hear, without sincerity. That is probably the worst out the lot.
I mean today i watched and i learnt that a great guy will make ONE girl really feel like the most special girl in the entire world, making 99 other girls..well jealous. Lol. He will NOT make 99 girls feel ‘special’ and have no delicious/meaningful tie with one. Simples.
But isn’t dating hard in this day and age. It doesn’t matter how old you are. It’s hard and I hate it. Not dating…but the way we have to do it today. I’m not one for online dating. I know it works for many but just not for me. And oh my God, i’m not a cynic, but i’ve certainly got burnt in the past online. You need to meet someone in the flesh to begin the adventure. Lots of my friends have actually met guys online and are perfectly happy. I mean my friend Emily started to chatting to a guy on Tnder for months. 11 months without meeting him. Then they did their first date by them BOTH FLYING TO NEW YORK TO MEET EACH OTHER. I know! Emily is from Yorkshire. He was living in Bermuda. That was their middle ground. Weeks later they were in a relationship, and now they’re together, happy, moved in and well she moved to Bermuda to be with him. I know.
My love life isn’t as easy as that! Lol. I can’t online date, the connection comes to me, when i see them in front of me. I’m sassy but traditional and my romantic standards of idealism mean that i need to meet, see, smell and touch the person in real life to know if all is going to moving forward. Lol. I’m SELECTIVE. I’m emotional. I’m excitable. But you’ll know if i like you, because i’ll just tell you. What you see..is what you get. I’m not one to be scared to suggest we go on a date.
I also learnt that we girls like guys to stand by what they say, be Honorable…stick to following through, if they say their going to. It scores guys major points, because it shows us trust and makes us realize that you care and all that jazz. It separates the boys from the men. It helps us peek at what’s in store for the future.
I learnt lots!
Then, our guy friend turned around, in his suit and taught us more, (after we had our horoscopes read out…I’m a Sagittarius) and well he said, that there are ALWAYS THREE SIDES TO EVERY STORY. And well we always thought there were two. Yet, he makes sense.
‘No…there’s the girls version, the guys version and the truth…the what actually happened.’
And how true is that! So true! Who knew he could be so insightful! Lol
But yeah, i’m off now to continue chilling. I can’t wait for Friday to dawn on me I’m feeling fun. I’m feeling excited. I fancy drinks. I fancy girls night.
Roll on the weekend!